Nia Mariah
My life, the shit that happens and the memories that are made.

Anonymous asked:

what do you miss the most

Life.Shit&People answered:


hmmm well I miss the life that I had created with some one for the past few years. I miss the innocence In thinking that It would never end, most of all the time when I was blind to a lot of shit. Being in Love is fun but don’t make it so that you can’t be without someone, that was my mistake. You end up putting them up so high, that they are your natural high sometimes.I miss the Love tho, Its interesting to see how I am now that I don’t have some constantly telling me they love me or how much they for me care. I wake up and just roll over into the mirror and say how much I love myself. 

Now ask me what I don’t miss and I could go on for days =)

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1. There’s a reason schools teach Shakespeare instead of John Green; you make your own life, it’s not written in the stars, waiting to start until you find that person with the perfect smile

2. People are a hell of a lot smart than you think. Shut your mouth, stop thinking you know everything, and listen.

3. Getting close and being vulnerable is scary as hell, But you know what else it is? Worth it.

4. Reason really is the doctor to love.

5. The moment you feel your happiness being dictated by another person, take a break from them.

6. Take a step back and look around, you have more friends than you think.

7. Growing up is going to happen and it’s going to be tough. Just stay close to those around you, you’re all in it together.

8. If you’re still checking their Facebook/Instagram/tumblr, you’re never going to get over them.

9. Everything seems worse in the morning. Don’t fall for it, it’s deceiving.

10. No need to be so intense all the time. People get tired of swimming in the deep end, sometimes they need a break in the shallow part of the pool.

11. Stop avoiding everything. Get out of bed, get dressed, go to school, go to work. It sucks at first but it’s part of the healing process.

12. If the person makes you feel like shit and you still go back to them, it’s an abusive relationship.

13. Headphones are great, but listen to music aloud every once in a while. Sometimes you need to scream a song so everyone can hear you.

14. Boundaries are a must.

15. You can be a caring person, but you need to be happy with yourself before you try to make others happy.

16. Try and understand other’s intentions and situation before you get angry with them.

17. Tough love is necessary sometimes.

18. You can’t fix people no matter how hard you try. Get this engrained in your mind.

19. Surround yourself with people who will love and support you.

20. Loneliness is lethal and makes you have a distorted view of things.

21. No one hates you more than you hate yourself. Stop being your own enemy.

22. Someone can only hurt your feelings if you allow them to.

23. Getting your shit back in order is five times as hard as it is to mess it all up.

24. Listen to your parent’s advice.

25. Be open to anything and everything. Life isn’t fun when you’re a closed book.

26. Talking about your problems is great, but there comes a point when talking about it becomes dwelling on the past and it drains everyone around you. Know when you’ve hit this point.

27. A lot of people don’t like their shit showing. More people than you know are going through hard times.

28. Distract yourself.

29. Don’t be so easily swayed, a lot of claims out there are not true.

30. Some seasons of your life are harder than others. This too shall pass.


30 Things I Learned During the 30 Worst Days of my Life: November 2013  (via cavum)

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"Adele gets me through heartbreak every single time smh"
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August Alsina Backseat
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I want another chance at happiness. I feel exhausted, hurt and more alone than ever. The only thing keeping me going is knowing that everything happens for a reason. A year ago I seen this coming but did everything In my power to prevent it. I come back to Maryland in a week and a half, I’m absolutely dreading this move back. I’ve given up on a lot of people and a lot of people have let me down since I left, so going back is going to be a lot different. Ugh what a year lol Not having a Instagram or twitter has let me keep a lot of shit off the internet lmao Welp

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"He’ll grab your waist and whisper in your ear but six months later you’ll find yourself drunk texting him that you miss him and he won’t respond."
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